Be free. Be truly, unabashedly, honestly free. Just be you. Unapologetically YOU. Never let an ideology or belief system - I don't care what it is or who taught it to you or how long you've believed it - stifle you or harm you or tell you that something is right or logical when you know that it is NOT. If you are being taught that you are less than, inferior to, must be submissive to, must be led by...then GET OUT. You have a brain. You have a personality. You have a life. Go live it. Be free.